January 2011
261 posts
Anonymous asked: thank you so much amber
this helped me alot & i guess
if i didnt tell him, that would hurt him more
the sooner the better
Jan 31st
Anonymous asked: so.... long story... bear with me... I'm a girl who doesnt believe in relationships but this year I met this amazing boy and things hit off great to begin with... mentally I set up this whole entire scenario where I first become his friend and eventually it would lead to a relationship. Soo... things started working out great and we started hanging out a lot and it was good. after we started...
Jan 31st
Anonymous asked: Hey, so I have an exam on tuesday like a final exam and I'm so scared and nervous. I'm so scared that I can't even study and srsly I'm so scared to fail the exam and to disappoint everyone, like my family, my friends, my teachers and of course Myself as well :( I'm so scared that I'm crying and I'm so sensitive these days. If I fail the exam everyone will talk...
Jan 31st
Anonymous asked: Hey Amber :)
You told a tumblrer that we shouldn't lean onto selfish people.. but everone in my school is selfish and I dont like any of the teachers..
My parents and family never understand or understood me..
What do I do?
Jan 30th
wannabeanemotionlessfreak asked: Why are people so selfish at most times??
Jan 29th
wannabeanemotionlessfreak asked: thank you thank you thank you so much Amber :)
you advice gave me so much spirit and inspiration :')
i've stopped cutting myself and i've started writing in my diary :D
but, i dnt think i can tell anyone abt my feelings,, its very hard for me.. sometimes i dnt even know what to say,or how to say it so,, its okay if i just keep it in my heart right?
i...
Jan 29th
Anonymous asked: Hey Amber, I don't know how to begin. Well, my mom and dad are getting divorced. I personally think that it's for the best, because they were fighting for years now. That's really not a big deal. The problem is that I didn't tell any of my friends. Every time they come over to my house they're like "hey where's your dad?" and I just reply yea well he went to...
Jan 29th
Anonymous asked: Hey amber! I have a problem....I have a friend, she's really, idk why, for some reason allays moaning, and saying how her life's hard,and cries a lot......she's really really kind, but sometimes I get tired of listening to her moan...she goes on and on about her problems, and I keep thinking, she's not the only one with problems..there are people out there with problems much...
Jan 29th
Anonymous asked: thank you soo soo much for your advice.. :) it really helps
Jan 28th
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Jan 28th
Anonymous asked: Heyy Amber, not sure if you can help but try your best. Lately I've been feeling like I don't belong. I am a very shy person at first, but than I become very outgoing. I have a couple friends at the moment, but we dont have much in common I love the idea of going out at night and staying out, partying and drinking..while they enjoy..staying in.. I'm not sure what to do..Not only am...
Jan 28th
Anonymous asked: ive wanted the same guy for at least a year. hes the only one i would ever consider having a relationship with. but he doesnt want the same thing. he just likes to use me while im drunk, touch me inappropriately, and ask me to do things i dont feel comfortable doing. yet i still cant get him off my mind but i dont know what to do. i cant forget about him and i want as much attention from him as...
Jan 28th
Anonymous asked: I'll just get right to it....so I like this guy in my grade, and he's really kind and sweet..... and I think he likes me back..we've been testing for a while now...my friends say he likes me, but idk....one of my friend told me that he used to have a crush on one of my classmate's sister...and I don't know whether he still have feelings for her....I used to not really care...
Jan 28th
Anonymous asked: hi amber, i'm having a few problems right now & i need help.
i'm currently dating a guy but i dont like him anymore, but i havent been able to see him or even talk to him lately. but everytime i'm about to tell him that we should be friends, but this feeling just comes rushing over me & all i think is that he's such a nice guy & he's so sweet and i just...
Jan 28th
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Jan 26th
jim-fear asked: I don't have a problem or anything at the moment, I just thought I'd mention that this blog is a really great idea, and I think you must be an awesome person for doing it.
There aren't enough people who do things like this, so good on you.

P.S. thanks for following haha :D
Jan 26th
Anonymous asked: http://just-the-way-you-arent.tumblr.com/ would you mind giving her some advice? she wrote a little something and she needs advice. thanks <3
Jan 26th
Who would like to see me do more videos in the...
If so, let me know! Have a question or topic you’d like for me to give advice about? Send it in! But please note: If you are sending in a question you’d like for me to answer via video or a question you wouldn’t mind being considered for a future video you have to let me know. If there’s nothing in the question indicating you want it in a video I’m going to think you...
Jan 25th
Anonymous asked: So... basically, I just had a long talk with my mom. She told me my SAT tutor called and said I had no chance whatsoever to pass the SAT(supportive, I know). So, I don't know if you can answer this, but can I get into college with just ACT scores?
Jan 25th
Anonymous asked: Hey Amber! Just letting you know that what you;re doing is so awesome and it's really sweet that you are taking time out of your day to help people out.. way to go girl!
The reason I'm writing to you is because I want to know your views on women's rights, and what you think about it. Not in the present, but in the fiture? What direction do you think women's rights will...
Jan 24th
Anonymous asked: Hey I saw you were giving guy good advice so I thought I'd share my situation.... sorry for being anon my tumblr is connected to my fb and I dont really want these guys to know I'm talking about them .. let's get started

So it all starts a few years ago, I started liking this guy (let's call him Dan) Dan and I had many classes together and we began becoming...
Jan 24th
rabhelpants asked: you are such a sweet heart, i love what you're doing!
Jan 23rd
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It's not giving up, it's knowing that no matter...
Jan 23rd
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Anonymous asked: This might be a stupid question, but here I go...

So... my friends think it's wrong to like a guy based on their look(do you think it's wrong?) but I can't help myself from liking this one guy I keep seeing everywhere. I want to get to know him, but I have no classes with him and he is more in the "popular" group. How can I talk to him without being weird or...
Jan 23rd
Anonymous asked: You are an amazing person. I hope you know this :) <3
Jan 23rd
Anonymous asked: Alright Amber, I have a problem.
It's a boy problem, which I never have, and I'm confused.

There's this boy (let's call him Frank) that I met a few weeks back, and we really got on. He's quite hot, really nice and just a generally lovely guy. Last time we met up, he made it obvious he likes me, and I kind of like him too...but here is where the...
Jan 23rd
Anonymous asked: Hey :) I love your advice !! You've helped me twice with similar stories!!!
My friend likes biology and art, do you know any good jobs that have that sort of talent?
Jan 23rd
Anonymous asked: hey amber :) well.. first off ..... I LOVE YOUR BLOG!!!! LOVELOVELOVELOVELOVVVEEEE IIITT!!!!!

and umm secondly.. i need some advice..
you see.. i have a lot of problems and i think im am veryyy depressed.. problem is, i have a lot of friends but i never tell them my problems or other stuff like that.. problem is.. i cant, this is because whenever i wanna talk abt...
Jan 23rd
Kaytuhpai: You guys can help me and my... →
kaytuhpai: We entered a Country Nissan jingle contest and at 12 o’clock midnight they announced that WE MADE IT INTO THE TOP 5! My boyfriend and I live in two different states and have to pay 300 dollars for plane tickets every time we see each other, so it only happens for a few days out of every couple…
Jan 22nd
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To my tumblr loves:
I just saw a link for a girls suicide note. I left her a pretty long letter in her ask box and now I’m sitting here hoping and praying she sees it and I’m sure the million other ones she will be getting tonight. What I want to say to all of you is this: it will get better! No matter how hard your life is right now, no matter who has come and gone in your life, kicked you to the curb,...
Jan 22nd
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Jan 22nd
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Anonymous asked: So I hang out with a group of guys all the time. They're my closest, best friends. Anyways, everytime I'm with them, well, they treat me like a guy. And for a while, I felt special being one of the guys. But now I just feel shitty whenever new girls come to hang out, and they tease and flirt with them, but not me. I guess I kind of like one of them. But it just sucks over all. I...
Jan 21st
Jan 21st
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Anyone, everyone. Please pray for Earl Espino....
silhouettesinthesunset: We love you, Earl. We’re here for you. ♥  Praying for you Earl! Wishing you all the luck in the world! <3 
Jan 21st
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Jan 21st
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Hi Followers!
How are you all? Good I hope! If not, my ask box is always open! Even if you are good, my ask box is still open for chatting! Haha! =) <3
Jan 21st
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Jan 20th
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maryanniemoo asked: i just wanted to say thank you again:) ive been rereading and rereading the message that you wrote me back. you are such a great person and you give incredible advice. you're so kind and i dont usually open up to people like i did with you but there was something about you that made me feel like i could trust you! by the way, i saw your video and you are BEAUTIFUL ! on the outside and...
Jan 19th
maryanniemoo asked: i just wanted to say thank you again:) ive been rereading and rereading the message that you wrote me back. you are such a great person and you give incredible advice. you're so kind and i dont usually open up to people like i did with you but there was something about you that made me feel like i could trust you! by the way, i saw your video and you are BEAUTIFUL ! on the outside and...
Jan 19th
Jan 18th
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Since Today is Martin Luther King Day,
Martin Luther King was all about expressing his dreams of equality for others. So, in his honor, what are your dreams? Do you have one ultimate one or maybe a million? When it comes to dreams, the sky is the limit! What’s your dream?
Jan 18th
alwaysis-valueless asked: thanks for following (: your blog is truly inspirational. good to know that there are people even on the internet that are willing to help. if i have any problems, i'll be sure to call on you. thank you <33
Jan 18th
alwaysis-valueless asked: thanks for following (: your blog is truly inspirational. good to know that there are people even on the internet that are willing to help. if i have any problems, i'll be sure to call on you. thank you <33
Jan 18th
tearstreakedface-deactivated201 asked: this guy i had a thing with last year when i was a sophmore and he was a senior basically crushed me last year. i was so upset. it hurt so bad. i had never has feelings that strong ever. he changed his mind in the single space of 1 hour. no joke. but he still keeps in touch randomly even though he is in college right now. he texted me 5 times in the last week. i go weeks without hearing from him....
Jan 18th
babywemakemagic asked: You're beautiful, just to state the obvious. You have so many amazing qualities that make you the unique wonderful person you are. Don't ever think that you aren't good enough. You need to make you happy, because it's a well known fact that you can't please everyone. There are so many things about you that make you the person you are and I love you for that. I love you for...
Jan 18th
adorecouture asked: Thank you so much Amber, really. I appreciate it so much, you're an angel xx
I replied to your message to me but I didn't click that it doesn't send you a notification for that, lol... duhh Megan :d
But anyway thank you SO much, so so so much <333
Jan 18th
babywemakemagic asked: You're beautiful, just to state the obvious. You have so many amazing qualities that make you the unique wonderful person you are. Don't ever think that you aren't good enough. You need to make you happy, because it's a well known fact that you can't please everyone. There are so many things about you that make you the person you are and I love you for that. I love you for...
Jan 18th
adorecouture asked: Thank you so much Amber, really. I appreciate it so much, you're an angel xx
I replied to your message to me but I didn't click that it doesn't send you a notification for that, lol... duhh Megan :d
But anyway thank you SO much, so so so much <333
Jan 18th